Young Fathers Must Grow Up Too

As I said in one of my last posts I am currently seeing a new guy. Well this new guy has a friend that has two kids with two different mommies. I didn't judge him until yesterday. As me and my boyfriend got back to his house this friend came over. We were standing in the living room discussing the events of his baby mama and how things were going and in the conversation he made comments like "I gave up on working it out with her a long time ago she just doesn't know it" and "We will never work it out" this infuriated me. Why? Because as he was talking about this and her I had flashbacks of how my ex treated me and he probably made these same comments. Both my boyfriend and I agree that he is being stupid but that is not the fact of the matter. The problem with this is the fact that he does not act like a father. He acts like he is a single man and he is NOT he is a FATHER and he should start acting like one. Personally I feel very sorry for both his daughter and son and their mothers because as he is out hoeing around and playing daddy every other weekend they have devoted their live to raise these children. I wish young fathers were forced to grow up the same way young mothers are. But I guess the world just doesn't work like that. I am just thankful that I don't have to put up with my son's sperm donors bs and I have a wonderful man in my life that thinks of my son as his own. :)